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Gonna go back to school in January hopefully to take Early Childhood Education. Journalism may be dying but there will never be a shortage of kids....I hope.

 

Some positives are that I will be at my old campus that is all new now but negatives are that it'll cost $8,000 for two years and I have to be in Welland...ugh.

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I really hate kids at the beach that just run around in the sand without giving a crap about people tanning. I was sitting there on my towel, and I hear from a distance some kid screaming "hot, hot, hot!!!"..and I thought to myself, here we go. So the kid comes running right by me and kicks up like a cloud of sand and it just settles all over me just as I was ready to head back to the car. I had to go back in the water and then dry up again.

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Just got back from the Cubs-Phillies game, had a lot of fun. The ballpark is amazing, although I don't know if I like it better than Yankee Stadium (although that may just be a bias). Game was good, with the Phillies winning 4-3 after trailing 3-0 after the top half of the first inning. The stadium was almost sold-out, and the fans in Philly are crazy. Also got a new, all black fitted Phillies cap which is sweet.

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Just got back from the Cubs-Phillies game, had a lot of fun. The ballpark is amazing, although I don't know if I like it better than Yankee Stadium (although that may just be a bias). Game was good, with the Phillies winning 4-3 after trailing 3-0 after the top half of the first inning. The stadium was almost sold-out, and the fans in Philly are crazy. Also got a new, all black fitted Phillies cap which is sweet.

 

 

Damn you. I've been looking for one for ages.

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Damn, I don't wanna ask this girl out and get in a relationship. I just wanna [expletive]. How do I make this happen? lmao

Show her that you have 9,000 posts on OTR. Trust me.

 

Post your results in here.

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OK i've never posted stuff about girls,,, ever I think, but I need some help here

 

I started talking to this girl like 3 weeks ago ish, and we hit it off way quickly. Anyway, long story short I like her, she likes me. Butttt right now she's going through some tough shit with like family and stuff like that. She says she doesn't want a relationship right now, but idk if that means she wants to wait a little or what? She said just let it happen or something along those lines

 

Along with the family stuff, obviously I'm leaving this state in about 3 months to go to college... about 12 hours away, more or less. I plan on visiting a lot, but like idk I kinda want this to be just like a summer fling, but it's tough because she wants to wait and shit.

 

Soooo idk what to do. Hopefully not too many of you guys are dicks. Advice?

 

[insert random show off baseball card collection joke here]

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OK i've never posted stuff about girls,,, ever I think, but I need some help here

 

I started talking to this girl like 3 weeks ago ish, and we hit it off way quickly. Anyway, long story short I like her, she likes me. Butttt right now she's going through some tough shit with like family and stuff like that. She says she doesn't want a relationship right now, but idk if that means she wants to wait a little or what? She said just let it happen or something along those lines

 

Along with the family stuff, obviously I'm leaving this state in about 3 months to go to college... about 12 hours away, more or less. I plan on visiting a lot, but like idk I kinda want this to be just like a summer fling, but it's tough because she wants to wait and shit.

 

Soooo idk what to do. Hopefully not too many of you guys are dicks. Advice?

 

[insert random show off baseball card collection joke here]

Show off your baseball cards.

 

Then, just make the decision to be friends. You don't want to be in a long distance relationship, 12 hours away, especially when you're away at college. I was in one, same situation and nearly the same distance (from Coffeyville to Albuquerque), and it didn't work. I got to the point where I actually moved to Albu just to make her happy, then we left for California for 2-3 months. At the end of the day, it was the worst relationship I've ever been in, despite it being the second-longest (two years). Ended badly, and when I look back on it, nothing I did was worth it.

 

I know people will say it can work, but unless they are now married AND met up with them while in college, long distance, they have no idea and no ground to stand on. Once you leave, you'll be calling her all the time, she'll be expecting it, and eventually, she'll start keeping tabs on you. If you miss a call, or two, she'll be suspicious because you're in college, she's not there, and that's life. On the other hand, you'll do the same, even if you don't think you will, and it may be because she feels that way about you. Because you are 12 hours away, you can't jump in the car and drive to make sure things are cool, so your jealousy and/or suspicious (or hers) will eat at you the entire week, or two, or however long. Fighting over the phone means it's much more difficult to make up with each other. Everything is ten times harder.

 

Maybe there's a chance later on, if you're really, really into her. You don't want to ruin it now, though. Being away, you can't really get too deep into the friends zone...so that can be avoided. Who knows what will happen in 2-3 years? However, it's easy to see what MAY happen if you dive into a relationship now, then leave three months into it, right before you lock her up (could be less time, if she's wanting to wait a bit). I just wouldn't swing for the fences in that situation.

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long distances suck man they never ever work out. plus you will be in college you have no chance and its not like you have been together for years so you dont really know how much she is into you and there are plenty of babes in college man, plenty.

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Yeah I'm pretty sure I don't want a long distance relationship, but what about like from now to when I leave? Should I wait to see how things play out? That's what she wants me to do, but like I said a Summer fling can only last so long, and if it's getting a late start? Not ideal.

 

Thanks for the help btw guys

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I'm basically repeating what Real said but...

 

If you want to see where you could go in a relationship with her/have sex then go for it, but if you like her enough to go deeper (long term relationship etc) then keep her as a friend and stash her away for a while.

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